The day my mom passed I felt as if a part of me died with her. I’m not the same person I used to be when she was alive. My life feels so strange without her. After losing my mom, I’m learning to find myself again.
I’m always wondering if the old me will come back. I miss her, but without my mom, she’s gone. My life is different. I need to find myself again.
I get lost in my thought everyday especially when I see others with their moms. I can’t help it. I miss you more than words on a paper. You were my rock and biggest fan. My heart still aches for you and searches for your love.
Whenever I overhear other woman talking about Mom, my heart melts and I lose myself all over again. My ear amplifies the sounds of her voice without communicating with my brain. A headache comes on and my breath shortens.
It’s like any progress I make in finding myself instantly disappears. I’m still new at this since it’s only been three years.
I wonder if the old me will ever come back. Is she gone forever?
I miss being outgoing. I miss not being so bitter. I miss feeling like I’m actually smiling. I miss feeling confident about everything. I miss true happiness. I miss feeling good about myself.
Yes, all of this disappeared after my mom passed away. The old confidence, cheerful me is somewhere. If you find her, please send her back to me.
I wonder what my life would be like if my mom was still alive. I can’t help myself wonder if I would be a different person and mother to my own. Where would my life be?
I wish my child could know the person I was when you were alive. I was such a better and happier person. My child deserves a happier mom, but instead, I’m an emotional roller coaster. Will my child ever know the person I used to be when my mom was alive? Will I always be searching for myself?
I wish my soulmate could still be in love with the girl I used to when my mom was alive. I expressed love so much better than this new empty version of myself. I wouldn’t be so up in the air about getting married. The thought of getting married aches my heart because I wouldn’t have the mother-daughter pictures, getting ready with my mom, or other motherly wedding things. I know she wouldn’t want me to feel this way because she knows I want to get married to my soulmate. It’s just so hard without her.
My mom is missing so much in my life. I’m too young to be motherless. I guess that’s why I’m having a hard time singing myself after her dead. I feel robbed and lost. The thought of having to live on word without her scars my heart. She’s missing all the key points in my life. It’s a battle without myself everyday. Life is just too difficult to overcome with your #1 fan and main life line.
I know I will be ready for all sorts of things when I learn how to cope without my mom. Time will only heal my lost broken heart or at least that’s what I have been told. The truth is I’m afraid if I don’t find the girl I used to be that I will lose my memories of my mother. I know it’s so silly but my heart and brain continuously think I will lose the old me forever.
I know I will never be the same. I have to try and discover similar traits of the old me. I may try myself into thinking I find myself. This may be the only way I can learn to find myself again.
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